Success vs Happiness: The Winning Formula in Sport
Are you happy because you are successful, or are you successful because you are happy?

This age-old question is much like the one explored in our earlier article, A Lethal Combination: Culture and High Performance.
It’s a thought-provoking topic that goes to the heart of sports, leadership, and life.
Clear Goals and Adaptability
In sports, as in life, achieving success often depends on having:
- A clear goal and a well-thought-out strategy to achieve it.
- The flexibility to adapt and change course when necessary.
- A willingness to listen to all stakeholders involved in the process.
- The courage to acknowledge successes and tackle challenges head-on.
The Happiness-Success Link
Research by Lyubomirsky, King, & Diener (2005) has shown that happy people are more likely to lead successful and thriving lives.
While success can indeed make people happier, happiness itself plays a significant role in driving success.
Happy individuals tend to:
- Exhibit positive emotions and traits like optimism and adaptability.
- Take on challenges and work towards their goals, often leading to greater success.
- Handle negative emotions appropriately, allowing them to remain resilient during tough times.
In Western culture, happiness is often seen as central to a fulfilling life, with research showing that happy people enjoy better relationships, higher incomes, superior work performance, robust health, and longer lives.

Personal Insights: Happiness and Success in Coaching
In mid-2023, I wrote an article titled Leadership in High-Performance Environments, where I shared some of the lessons I’ve learned in my coaching career and the change in coaching environment I was facing.
The past 18 months have been incredibly rewarding for me personally and professionally as I was part of some special teams and managements during this period:
- Hamilton Sea Point RFC won the inaugural Amateur World Cup in France and the Western Province Super League A for the first time since 2009.
- Boland U21 claimed victory in the SA Rugby U21 Shield Competition for the first time.
These achievements have reinforced the connection between happiness and success, both for the teams and myself.
Reflecting on these experiences during some much needed down time, the insights from Leadership in High-Performance Environments resonate strongly:
- Happy teams have a strong vision and a clear strategy to achieve their goals.
- Strong relationships with open, honest communication form the foundation of happy teams.
- Adaptability allows teams to make timely, well-communicated decisions when the situation demands a change in course.
- Accountability ensures that teams acknowledge their successes and address shortcomings directly.

New Lessons on Happiness and Success in Sport
In addition to these foundational insights, my coaching experiences over the past 18 months have highlighted new dimensions of the happiness-success dynamic:
1. Happiness Fuels Performance
- Positive emotions boost motivation, helping players stay committed to their goals.
- Confidence enhances skill execution, as happy players perform better under pressure.
- Team dynamics improve when players contribute to a positive culture of collaboration.
2. Success Reinforces Happiness
- Achievement creates joy, as milestones bring a sense of fulfilment.
- Recognition builds confidence, creating a positive feedback loop that fosters growth.
3. The Role of Balance
- Avoid overpressure by focusing on the journey, not just the destination.
- Resilience in defeat helps players recover from setbacks and grow stronger.
4. Cultivating Happiness in Sport
- Focus on the process: Emphasise skill development, effort, and teamwork.
- Create a supportive environment: Positivity and encouragement from coaches, teammates, and families are essential.
- Mental skills training: Techniques like mindfulness and gratitude help players maintain a positive outlook.
5. A Two-Way Relationship
- Happiness and success influence each other. Happy athletes tend to perform better, and consistent success boosts their happiness. Recognizing this relationship creates a sustainable path to excellence.
Final Takeaway
Happiness isn’t just a result of success in sport; it’s a driving force behind it.
By fostering a positive, supportive, and enjoyable environment, we can help our players perform at their best while thriving in both sport and life.
While many believe success leads to happiness, research and experience suggest it’s often the other way around.
Focus on happiness, and success will follow.
The Final Pass
